There are lots of things I don’t wanna do:
Get up before 8:30 am
Sleep all day
pretend to like people I don’t
None of these tie together, but I must say that my poor BF is struggling with finding win/win situations where really there are none.
This morning we had an interesting information exchange about bully countries and oil and Collapse by J. Diamond (it’s really not a school book and you really SHOULD read it).
All said, there is a much closer to us real life situation where we just keep giving and giving and getting no compromises or nothing in return. I won’t go into the gorry details (gossipmongers!!) but let me just say that:
1. I will not ruin another person’s special day
2. I will not sacrifice myself for people who would rather die on the sword
3. I do expect friendships to be reciprocal
I’m not going to stress my BF outover whether he should or shouldn’t out of respect and honor to me because he’s a real man and will go there.
I’m not going to make a big deal out of how ridiculously selfish I could be over this…well…ridiculously selfish proposition.
Now that you are thoroughly confused…we will move back to the regularly scheduled program.